Good day, dear visitors of the blog! Fulfilling and happy relationship is impossible without sex life. Satisfy a woman in bed to affect his mental balance and behavior.
But why the most harmonious, at first glance, the relationship, sometimes missing libido? In fact, the reasons for this phenomenon are more than enough. Here is a huge important role than physiological factors, and psychological.
Lack of libido in women is not a reason to blame the spouse. Today I'm going to help you understand why this is happening.
During the orgasm, from a physiological point of view, is to reduce the uterus and the vagina, which ends with satisfaction. Partners can experience during one sexual act, one or several orgasms.
If a woman is cold in bed, not experiencing any sensations, then it is called a cold. Some cold woman, is a complete aversion to the sexual process.
Libido - called sexual desire. Its heyday was in the late Teens or early twenties, sometimes earlier.
Sex life partners is derived from desire, which is formed in the brain. Strong sex shows, through visual images, a large part of the population is associated with romance and action. When you get a desire for excitement, then begins the process phases and ending in orgasm. A more serious problem is, the more difficult the treatment.
Why not have a want for women?
I've already talked about the fact that the reasons for the lack of attraction can be divided into two groups. Examines the physiological side:
- The failure of the hormonal system. Is responsible for libido hormone testosterone. Today there is a tendency to fall. Is women decreased libido may be due to under production of the hormone prolactin. Breastfeeding women have a loss of attraction.
- Age-related processes. The loss or weakening of libido occurs in women during menopause. Currently, the efficiency of the ovaries begins in the autumn, when the estrogen is produced in small quantities. The process is painful without lubrication. Stop sexual intercourse, to continue to live a normal life and be happy.
- Pathological condition. This includes conditions, such as diabetes, diseases of the genitourinary system, and many others.
- A way of life. Nicotine, alcohol, drugs inhibit the attraction. They affect the nerves in the brain, which are responsible for libido. The priority of satisfaction of these methods.
- The contraction of the muscles of the vagina, which can be painful for both parties. Often the cause of this condition is postponed to sexual violence.
- Sexually transmitted diseases. They often create discomfort in the area of the external genitalia and the vagina.
Psychological
A woman often does not want in connection with the previous heavy changed situations, such as a failed first sexual relations, violence, the birth of the child.
Many women who have been reared in a very strict, ashamed to open their feelings and the feelings of the partner. They are afraid to look slutty for him, etc. Often there are cases where after marriage a women to have sex only in the dark or clothing. Lost to, because of hidden resentment toward our former partner.
At the beginning of Dating, and at first relations between people exist the interest and strong attraction. This affects the chemical processes in the brain, which improves the passion and growing desire. All this leads to a natural sexual process without the need of an extra activation to.
The problems of identity, which has arisen due to the use of the opinion of society, parents and other people, and is also as a result of psychological trauma on time may overlap a strong attraction to a particular partner. But over time, that spark is lost, and the problems returned.
Constant conflicts and disagreements between spouses that occur during the whole life together, it is important role in loss of sexual desire. Some people have a long time to hold a grudge, because it completely shuts down sexual attraction.
A large part of the population, it is important to receive compliments, flowers and gifts, even after the wedding and many years together. Women have a huge need to develop the emotional part of the relationship before sexual contact. In men, this need appears when having sex.
Love and sex should be in harmony with. If the couple prevails more Affection and spiritual connection, then the libido will go by the wayside, and vice versa.
Years between people is trust, understanding, but suffers intimate life. Their relationships, people lose, they may want intimacy with someone else, while the rest of the faithful companion.
An important role in physical attraction. After marriage men and women should no longer take care of themselves. They must comply with hygiene rules, watch my weight, hairstyle, makeup, clothes, style, skin condition, etc.
A relationship where you don't know what inspired the look, facial expressions, movements, smell partner is not satisfied. Distinguish specific parts of the DNA, which creates the attraction between the partners. So, we are most drawn to sexually those individuals that have irregular and unusual for us the style of clothing and behavior, that we really like. But the interests and views of life among such people is not the same.
Solution to the problem
A woman can not always understand the lack of desire. Good you ask yourself a lot of questions about how not to bring the marriage to divorce. Someone the best solution is to visit a psychologist or sexologist.
Expert, research, talk, will look at the problem from all angles, to establish the cause of loss of libido and find an effective way to solve this problem. This may be standard advice, a variety of technical therapeutic manipulation, dance and movement activities and so on. A professional to determine what the client needs work.
Treatment of reduced libido is a certain degree of difficulty. If managed correctly to figure out the reason, you need to take care mainly of the disease.
In any case, it is useful to lead a healthier life, to stop drinking alcohol, get enough sleep and keep a calm state of mind. All of these measures are intended to improve the hormonal levels in a natural way. I have achieved excellent results in this regard, so I know what I'm talking about.
It is useful to perform a set of exercises aimed at strengthening the PC muscles and pelvic floor muscles. It stimulates arousal by increasing the blood circulation. Also Kegel exercises can be done daily for this purpose.
And finally revealing to you the another way to get the sexual interest of a partner in a natural way. You just need to do yoga.
As you know, all the exercises of yoga are accompanied by a deep and conscious breathing. To do before bed exercises to train yourself to breathe correctly, and after that, the same abdominal breathing to use during intimacy, you will be amazed how it works!
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