One of the most important signs of puberty is the sexual feeling, sexual desire (libido sexualis). Sexual feeling in women, develops gradually. Libido it is necessary to distinguish two different parts: to the mutual convergence and to sexual intercourse. The women is specifically developed first.
Typically, it can develop quite independently without going to another. It is the emotional relationship to the person of the other sex the doctor for a long time defined as "higher love." Because of this feeling, the person becomes very near and dear. Instead, the men, especially important is the lust of sexual intercourse, that doctors define the sensual component of love. This part contains a desire to get special feelings of pleasures, which arise in the process of intimacy.
Thus, if the sexual attraction men primarily occurs in the sensual side, and only later (21-25 years) combined with the feeling of love friends, so girls ' presence in the composition of convergence, of course, is not to sexual intercourse. This desire arises only after months of sexual marital life, and often only after the first birth.
So, the structure of sexual desire of women the leading element in all stages of life is the love of a loved one. Sensual the same component, usually a young woman for some time, not even after sex, and then he gradually develops.
The physiology of sexual intercourse in women
To better understand the mechanism of sexual intercourse of the female body, we suggest to familiarize with the anatomy of the female genitalia.
Sexual intercourse (coitus) occurs generally under the influence of sexual arousal (voluptas), the highlight of which is an orgasm (orgasmus), after him comes the period of calm (defluvium), which occurred after intercourse. Lack of sexual arousal in women is called frigidity. During intercourse, the man erect penis pushes the walls of the vagina and comprehensive introduction to fill it.
The introduction of the erect penis is to facilitate the ability of the vagina to stretch considerably. Because the onset of sexual arousal before the introduction of the penis into the vagina men glands of Cooper splashes out of the secret adhesive, which wets the head of the penis and makes it slippery. A substance secreted by special glands in the head, makes the head fat, which also facilitates its introduction into the vagina.
Large and small lips in accordance with the specific tissue surrounded by connective tissue. During sexual excitement it is engorged with blood, the outflow of which is redundant, while the power to continue it. The result is a swelling of the clitoris, large and small labia in the formation of flexible rollers. Thanks to these changes, access the vagina becomes free. At the same time, women in the prostate, a small gland vestibule and the cervix emit light, transparent mucus.
During intercourse is just not observed any resistance, but on the contrary, it is much easier and the friction is painless.
Women also involved in the process: the skin and the mucous membrane of the penis rubs against the transverse folds of the vagina. At the same time, there are involuntary rhythmic contractions of the vaginal walls as a result of the operation of its sphincters. These reductions are particularly noticeable just before the termination of the swelling of the genital tract.
How does a woman orgasm?
When both participants in sexual intercourse there is a feeling of sensuality as a result of excitation of nerve cells, which is located on the tip of my penis, and the female head of the clitoris, in the vagina, the vulva and vagina. Irritation, which is perceived as these nerve endings are sent to the spinal cord and brain. These accumulate irritation and intensify, until they reach the level of excitation, which takes place a number of new reflexes. The last link is to remove the semen in men (ejaculation) and the secretion of the glands of the cervix and Bartolini glands in women. Ejaculation is accompanied by a voluptuous sensation of orgasm. The origin of the orgasm is not fully understood.
The female orgasm must be sufficient irritation of the erogenous zones and erotic emotionally ready for sexual intercourse. Unlike men, women increase orgasm is much slower, and decay times longer. During the "peak" orgasm still long both.
Orgasm intensity is very variable and depends on the temperament and Constitution of the people. Orgasm can occur as a result of reducing the excitability of the relevant parts of the visual hill to damage this site or braking effect on the cerebral cortex, caused by psychogenic factors (indifference, disgust, etc.).
Worth mentioning is also this unusual and very strong sensations of orgasm as squirt or jet of orgasm. Its essence is that the woman cums liquid: a small fountain of clear liquid splashed out of the vagina during orgasmic contractions. This liquid is formed in special glands, not to be confused with urine. To achieve a powerful orgasm a woman can, if a man is to stimulate the anterior vaginal wall or the g-spot.
How long is sex for women?
The normal duration of intercourse varies between 2 and 6 minutes. However, this large value is a sign of a person. The duration of sexual intercourse is also influenced by the between of sexual intercourse. Long sexual content, and strong sexual arousal greatly reduce the duration of sexual intercourse.
Why during sex, women don't run?
One of the serious psychological trauma women can be a disappointment personally. Married with the person who caused his bright and high emotions, he found, surprisingly cynical look of his men's sexual life, where he plays the role of a sheer instrument of pleasure.
Therefore, of particular importance is the relationship between a man and a woman during intercourse. Rudeness and tactlessness, to find her husband during the first sexual intercourse, creates in women a negative reflex to sexual intercourse. And if the following relations do not make positive changes, this reflex becomes pathological, causing more sexual coldness. The most cautious should be the attitude of the young girl, who has not had sexual intercourse.
If he is still a virgin, you feel the fear of the first sexual intercourse. Therefore, did not receive what was achieved by his wife in the first sexual intercourse is certainly a "first night" and quietly wait a few days to process the everyday woman is fear.
In this regard, girls who are married, doctors should interview, explain to them that the loss of virginity is not a disaster, because it often seems to some. The hymen is only very rarely flat. Basically it is a hole. If the shape of the hymen is such that sexual intercourse violate its integrity, the first sexual act, that he is toiling; this meant a slight pain. Bleeding, which happens in these cases, irrelevant.
Injury during sex
Complications, and trauma during sexual intercourse can occur in both men and women. Sometimes women during sexual intercourse may be significant damage to the genitalia. Rupture of the hymen depends on the degree of mechanical action. This kind of damage are varied: the hymen tears, wounds, even the separation of the hymen, mainly in the colorectal Department.
These injuries due to stamping and stretching of the introduction of the penis into the hole of the hymen. The edges of the hymen in this case is pressed inward, because the bulge and rupture.
Breaks during sexual intercourse can occur in different places, but most often they are depicted in figure 6 (exact marking openings is traditionally described as those of the clock face) or website. After the rupture of the hymen at 6 o'clock sometimes roughly perform sexual intercourse, in addition to the hymen, torn posterior wall of the vagina, mainly mucosa. In severe degree of immaturity of the reproductive system, such damage can go to the complete rupture of the perineum and vaginal walls and vaults.
Infantile women, which is the result of underdevelopment of the genitals, and the elderly, and the old - the result of atrophy and fragility of the tissues.
Is also complications such as spastic reduction in women the vagina, resulting in so strong a pinned member, the front part of it, especially the head, swell considerably, and the member can not be removed from the vagina. In these cases, the woman is revealed to anesthesia or to remove the violation in a warm bath.
Sometimes during intercourse, difficulties arise in connection with the dryness of the vaginal mucosa in case of violation of secretion of the glands of Cowper, or of special glands. In these cases, dry mucosa prior to sexual intercourse it is recommended to moisten, which stains the fat emulsion, ointment or saliva.
Rare, but still happens, there is a catastrophic complication during sexual intercourse than death. Death in the context of sexual intercourse occurs during or soon after him more often in men than in women, the elderly, patients with diseases of the brain and coronary arteries, especially when it was preceded by overeating or alcohol abuse. Death can be the result of a stroke, heart attack, blood clots, heart failure, and tuberculosis - severe pulmonary hemorrhage.
In some cases, gynecologists and forensic doctors have to deal with the complaints of the men, in particular, this happens in families, preaching Islam. Last after the wedding night accused them of the wife's fraud in connection with a small amount or complete absence of blood. In their opinion, this fact is a manifestation of the long-term violation of the hymen. However, research in such cases, almost always wrong, that men have been misled, due to the presence of their wives such forms of the hymen, which in its anatomical features allow for sexual intercourse without integrity violations. If the hymen is very low, a discharge of blood from the surface of the tears is too small or not at all.
Obstacles to sex women are: vaginismus, infantilism of the genitals, severe atrophic processes in them, the ugliness of the development of external or internal genitalia (hymen, vagina), inflammation, tumors, etc.